I live in a neighborhood where there is a bit of a cultural difference in regards to the ownership, care and training of dogs. Basically, there are lots of off-leash dogs roaming around, and from what I’ve seen, the training styles employed are quite different than what we practice at AnimalSense. A few days ago when taking my dog out for a walk, we had a situation arise that could have been potentially dangerous: an off-leash dog came running toward us, full speed, with no owner in sight.
It’s worth noting that despite my best attempts, my dog is not always friendly with other dogs when he is on his leash. It’s not his fault. He had some bad experiences early in his life, and it is something that I not only manage when we’re out for walks, but something that we continue to work on and probably will for the rest of his life. So when a dog comes charging up to him, and Otis can’t run the other way because he’s on a leash, he gets worked up (to say the least).
Over time, I’ve had to develop some management techniques to employ if and when this happens, and I’ve had to find a way to speak to the dogs’ owners in a manner that is both professional and honest. It serves no purpose to yell at your neighbors, as it’s usually not a well-received form of communication.
A lot of times, people see no problem with letting their dog roam free without a leash, and it’s that attitude that is the most difficult part about having the conversation. Sometimes people don’t realize that it’s not only dangerous for their dog (they could run into traffic, or approach a dog who is not nice and get hurt, or approach a person who is terrified of dogs, or a host of other scenarios) but they don’t realize that most cities in the United States have leash laws, and they could be fined. I have had to let my neighbors know about my own dog’s socialization problems, and explain to them that for the safety of not only my dog, but theirs as well, it’s a good idea for them to not have their pooch off leash when hanging out on the steps of their building. It’s usually better received if the blame is not placed on them, but explained to them that you have their dog’s best interest in mind.
Those of us who live in the city are in close proximity to our neighbors, and it’s important to be diplomatic and understanding whenever possible, even if we see behavior that irks us. Knowing what to do if you find yourself in a sticky situation and how to have a discussion with people in your community is a crucial part of living in the urban environment.